So much happy things happened. Guess I'm always blessed by Allah. What happened? Hohoho...Two more of my bros got married. One on Christmas eve(24th December 2005), the other one on the second day of Chinese New Year(30th January 2006). Haha, what a coincidence. Pandai betul pilih tarikh. Kenduri kat rumah was on 31st january yang lepas. Kira buat sekali la dua-dua tu, boleh dikatakan abang dan adik kawin sekali la.
I have 5 big brothers. Big family, eh. One of them,2nd bro, Zulkifli, died young due to fever. 4 left.
1st and 3rd bro got married in 2001. Yang ni dulu pun kawin sekali. Kenduri sekali. 1st bro got married to Sabahan, from Sampoerna. 3rd bro with Kelantanese, Kubang Kerian to be exact. 4th bro, also witk a Kelantanese, from Pasir Puteh. Finally, my last sis-in-law is from Kajang, Selangor, married to my 5th bro. Semuanya boleh dikatakan ada rupa la.
FYI, all of em only knew their spouses less than a year before they got married. Meaning? I mean, there were no lovey-dovey stuff. U know, cintan-cintun semua tu. Even if there were, only for a short while, few months at most. So different from the trend nowadays. Well, there are few assumptions that can be made.
1. They didn't have enough money before.
2. They were too busy with works.
3. They just couldn't find that right person.
4. They don't like cintan-cintun.
5. They don't care about girls, like girls are the last thing on their mind.
6. They are better Muslims, avoiding adulteries (zina).
7. Mom didn't say anything.
8. They didn't care about all these stuff, until they thought it's time to do so.
Well, for the 1st bro, my sis-in-law made the big move. bold eh. 3rd bro was match-made(btul ke pekataan ni?) by my uncle. 4th bro was match-made by mom herself. But mom was only the initiator. The rest was completed by my bro himself. 5th bro found his soul-mate by his own. 4th and 5th bros did have another relationship before. Broke up.
Since all my bros already got married, in pairs. I have to do it solo i guess. No more guys in the family. Hoho.
11 comments:
Haha. Your 5th brother looks very much like you.
Congrate..dpt dua sekaligus sister in law. Ur 5th bro,his smile like urs. how about ur kak long?before u getting married make sure she married first. hei...give her a break!
i believe (ye ke? i'm not sure)tak perlu that cintan cintun stuffs. It's such a pain when it broke up.
bak kata dr Tuah, nikmatilah cinta dalam bentuknya yang teristimewa; perkahwinan.
So, ur brothers make right decision. i think la. anyway, tahniah and now u have a big family.
**arshana**
ye...ke...?...normal laa...we're brothers!
**ann**
tenkiu ann!
I'll wait for my kaklong to get married first. By that time if she's still not married, then i'll find one for her..haha...fauzan pun dah book my kaklong :P
Sometimes...u walk carefully, avoid being in an accident. But somehow, things just happen.
@constant readers
kalu ikut Dr. fadzilah kamsah, saya masih di fasa pertama dengan kak long luppi.
*hai untung lah luppi dapat abang ipar sekelas*
"Sometimes...u walk carefully, avoid being in an accident. But somehow, things just happen."
Since luppi dah terlibat dengan "accident", aku doakan semoga "sakit" luppi cepat sembuh. Maka, ramailah yang dapat makan free.(kenduri kesyukuran sbb sembuh) - orang melayukan suka buat kenduri???
To think about it, your 4th bro pun nmpk sama je.
his 4th bro is totally diff from him physically.
itu mungkin itu luppis's stereoisomer when he hits 30 year olds.
Lupi,
Love is spontaneous, some people say, but i guess it's not as spontaneous anymore when they get divorced later (50% of US population are divorced) and thus I am wishing kebahagiaan to your bros hingga ke anak cucu... :)
There will be a time when all of your friends are married, and you will be all alone... urghh!!!!!
**arshana & fauzan**
kecik2 dulu semua muka sama je...dah besar baru laa ada yang kena hujan, ada yg kena panas. Environmentally induced phenotypic changes. What is the right term for that eh? btw, my 4th bro kerja part time dekat gym!
**irzan**
tenkiu tenkiu. Can't agree more. Love is so spontaneous. U just don't know when it ignited. And suddenly it's already burning.
Who will be alone first, u or me? haha.
Of course you la Luppi, Honestly I think marriage is stupid, if you were to get married just to get some kids.
For me?
I have NO PROBLEMS whatsoever with sex before marriage ;)
Use condoms, please.
KIDDING!!!!!
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